Ignored and dating
Realizing that there were red flags that you chose to ignore is a powerful lesson for the future. That means when your date does or says something that makes you bristle or creates that twinge of tension in your neck, you have to talk about it.Being alert to it can help you avoid repeating the behavior. That discussion will add to your understanding of your date’s values and how it impacts your compatibility.We just sometimes ignore things and I think that was what happened with me. They saw things too that they did not care for and I am afraid they were right. My unscientific view is that we ignore the signs because we’re focused on a specific outcome and we have confidence in our own abilities to succeed.
If your date isn’t willing to discuss your concerns, that’s an even bigger red flag.And where would that passionate feeling lead Natalie if she actually gets the guy? The person saying they’re not interested has nothing to gain from lying. Right into a relationship with an emotionally unavailable, messed-up man who is the first to say that he’s probably not ready to embark on something serious. ” This is like booking a seat on the Titanic AFTER you knew it was going to crash. The negative red flags that you will now pay attention to. In reading her blog I learned she was recently divorced and was blogging about starting over and all her hard work completely renovating the home she’d just bought.