Also, that they pay close attention to the wants and desires of their mate and to always communicate even during the difficult times.
"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.
If she literally can't keep his name out of her mouth for a couple of hours, it makes me feel like she's clearly not over past issues.
I don't want to pick up a saved video game: I'm here to start new." —Orlando O."I always appreciate the offer to split the check, even though I never allow it.
We're usually pretty open to new ideas." —Adrian B."Please don't critique or be too harsh about someone's sexual performance the first time you hook up with him.
Things are new and you aren't familiar with what the other likes yet. Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.
I'll take you to a dive bar with amazing burgers to see how you react.
Instead of the man trying to have romantic dates in the beginning, it's a good gesture to have hangouts where the two can get to know each other and their interests. instead of a romantic dinner, try a museum outing, concerts, bike riding)” -- Amanda D., 27“Nothing makes a man ‘feel’ better than a woman. Men are constantly told to "man up," be strong, tough and all that. There is strength in being open and vulnerable with the one you love.
" Not only does it show your interest and attentiveness, but also it shows your creativity, which is always a huge plus.” -- Victoria J., 22“When you show me you know how to make plans and you put me into your busy schedule, it shows me that I'm a priority and makes me feel important.
Spontaneity is fun and great here and there, but a woman like me is grinding right now and doesn't always have the luxury of that.
So show me you respect my time and let me know things in advance.
Whether we're in the early getting to know phase or deeply committed, my little boo thing – whatever – if you want my time you have to value it.” -- Natelege W., 27“I'm always surprised when they do the little things, like bringing my favorite candy or one flower. Listening will help you figure out the small gestures and surprises like saying "let's go to Chic-fil-a and a movie," because you know it's one of my favorite things.” -- Ashlee D., 23“A lot of what women do is to get the attention of men.
Have a conversation with her about making things exclusive.